(SOMETIMES YOU WIN...SOMETIMES YOU LEARN) is the title of a book written by John C. Maxwell where he explains the ways that someone can learn from losses in life so that they can be converted into success.
The ninth factor is (Bad Experiences...The perspective for learning). Bad experiences can benefit us if we allowed them to do that. They can help in the following points:
1- Accept your humanity:
No one is ideal or perfect because we are human. When we face bad experiences, we should allow them to remind us that we need to accept our flaws.
When you face bad experiences, learn to have a little mercy on yourself since you are a human.
2- Learn to laugh at yourself and on life:
Laughing will not solve problems permanently; however, it will let things more acceptable for some time.
We need to laugh sometimes to reduce the level of stress.
3- Keep your right perspective:
One of the writers said: (Faults are harmful when they occur; however, after years, these faults will be what we call experience).
Keeping right perspective while facing challenges is not that easy; however, it will be valuable to fight for it. The following will help to keep this right perspective:
- Do not judge yourself on a bad experience.
- Do not feel pity on yourself.
- Consider your failures as opportunities for learning and improvement.
4- Do not give up:
If you want to succeed in life, you should not give up.
5- Do not let your bad experience become your worst experiences.
6- Let your bad experiences take you to good experiences.
We should remember that bad experiences is bad only if we failed to learn from them. Good experiences are usually a result of learning from previous bad experiences.
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